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Name: Anna
Country: United States
State: Minnesota
Gender: Female
Interests: Cooking, Singing, Dancing, Photography, Designing, Hanging around coffee shops, Writing, Working with little kids, Basketball, Handball, Badmington, Tennis, My porcupine
Expertise: I'm extremely into culinary arts. I love cooking and naming all the ingredients to a dish just by trying it. Also I'm a great listener and would love to find someone to chat about anything interesting or important to them.
Occupation: Student
Industry: Business Marketing
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Member Since:
4/10/2003
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| Well this seems to be a bit awkward, considering the fact that I have not been on xanga for quite some time now. Just felt like I needed to vent or just journal something down. My greatest topic of the evening is, "Men and their affairs". What about it might ask? And I'll just answer... what the heck is that about?
After retiring home with my porcupine and having half my life scared out of me, from a family dinner, we cuddled in bed and watched an interesting movie called "Matchpoint". Anyone ever watched that? It has this wonderful plot line, beautifully acted with captions of lust and sex appeal about a guy basically having an affair with another woman. I won't tell you the ending so figure it out yourself. But my basic argument right now is what in the world leads men to have an affair. Is it the lust, the forbidden fruit or is life just that boring where he would want to go out and find trouble.
Chris, in MatchPoint, a married man, sleeps with another woman out of lust and knocks her up. Meanwhile, Nola, the knocked up lustful character, or the "other woman" would scream and argue till he breaks it off with his currently wealthy wife. Now picture this, you worked you rear ends off for everything you can possibly have, you decide to blow it off because of forbidden sex that you just can't keep in your pants. I guess not. So what is it that drives men to have these affairs? Are we to blame women? If we have done our duty, would we still be able to keep our men at home? So does that mean we put them on a leash or are we just mothering men now?
Honestly I don't speak for all women but I can confidently assume more than 95% believe that just because we don't keep men in check for 2 seconds we wouldn't mind them going out possibly generating the next line of children. So fine not only men cheat but women as well, but according to this "Conservative estimates are that 60 percent of men and 40 percent of women will have an extramarital affair. " Men still rank higher. With in all these cheating and lies, how can we do it and still claim to love someone.
Tonight I've watched, "Closer", another movie that is similar to "Matchpoint" but more reckless and full of claims for love. We have the one love where you don't need the other, the one that needs someone, and the plain just having sex relationships. Which am I? Neither. I don't need someone, nor do i don't need someone. I don't have just plain sexual relationships. Why because that's just how I am. I'd much rather not compare myself with anyone from this movie.
What I didn't understand about the movie is, how can someone be with someone, let them go have an affair and then still be with them again? I can't. I'd just leave and never be with that person anymore. It's just that simple. Can a person really just forgive and forget like that? I'd like to believe everyone can forgive and forget but we all know mankind. We say we forgive but we will never forget. What's your opinion on affairs? Forgivable?
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| So have you ever thought, just when everything seems right.. everything seems to be crashing down on you all over again... Life is just that funny isn't it... Just is... | | |
| "A life I can`t deny, in a world where no one understands. I wish I had my life in my hands..." "You can close your eyes to the things you do not want to see, but you cannot close your heart to the things you do not want to feel." -anonymous | | |
| woah.. its been a while since i've updated.. hrmm some maybe wonderin what i am doing up so late.. i've been baking cinnamon rolls... yes.. my siblings wanted some the next day so here i am maing them till 5 in the morning... gosh.. i love them too much.. i think i spoil them haha.. but yah..life had it's ups and downs but for some reason, no matter how much i've worked and how hard things are going... i think im gonna be okay for a while... hopefully. because i seemed to have found someone who can tell me things will be alright in the end... who knows. only god... and thank god for protecting my family today...thank you -luv anna | | |
| JENNY WAS HERE!!! =) I LOVERSSS YOU BUNNY BOooo`! =) | | |
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